Living Separately For Long Doesn’t Mean Marriage Is Dead

Landmark Ruling | Living Separately For Long Doesn’t Mean Marriage Is Dead: Supreme Court Slams Mechanical Divorces & Sets Aside HC Judgment

The Supreme Court has ruled that courts cannot blindly assume a marriage is “irretrievably broken” just because the couple living separately. The Court set aside a Uttarakhand High Court divorce decree and sent the case back for a proper examination of evidence.

NEW DELHI: In an important judgment, the Supreme Court has said that courts should not mechanically declare that a marriage has “irretrievably broken” only because the husband and wife are living separately.

The top court set aside a judgment of the Uttarakhand High Court which had granted divorce to a husband on the ground of cruelty without properly checking the evidence and without deciding who was actually responsible for the separation.

The Supreme Court has now sent the case back to the High Court for a fresh hearing so that responsibility for the marital breakdown can be decided correctly.

The Bench of Justice Surya Kant and Justice Joymalya Bagchi clearly said that before any court comes to the conclusion that the marriage has collapsed forever, it must first find out who started the separation, whether the separation was forced or voluntary, and whether there is clear evidence of cruelty, desertion, or refusal to cohabit.

The Court stressed that such findings cannot be made casually, especially when the future of a minor child is involved. According to the Bench, the High Court did not carry out this careful examination and skipped essential questions that must be answered before granting divorce.

The Supreme Court also explained the law on desertion, saying that courts must look closely at the conduct, intention, and circumstances of both parties. The Court said that unless there is solid proof that one spouse willfully left the other or refused to live together, the court cannot assume that the marriage has reached a stage where it cannot be saved.

The Court warned that wrong or premature findings of irretrievable breakdown can have “devastating effects” on children and can weaken the court’s responsibility to find the truth through evidence.

The case relates to a couple who married in 2009 and had a son in 2010. Shortly after the marriage, disputes began. The husband first filed a divorce case in 2010 alleging cruelty, but he withdrew that case. In 2013, he filed another divorce petition, this time claiming that his wife had deserted him. The wife opposed the case and said she was actually forced out of the house and had no choice but to live separately. The child has been living with the mother from the beginning.

The trial court dismissed the husband’s second divorce case in 2018 because it found that desertion was not proved. However, in 2019, the Uttarakhand High Court reversed that decision and granted divorce based only on the husband’s oral allegations of cruelty.

The High Court did not examine the wife’s claim that she was thrown out, did not decide who was responsible for the separation, and also did not check whether the earlier withdrawn divorce case could legally allow the second one. The Supreme Court found these gaps very serious and said that the High Court’s approach was completely against the established principles of matrimonial law.

The Supreme Court observed that when spouses live apart for long periods, many courts simply assume that the marriage is over. But the Bench strongly clarified that findings of cruelty or desertion cannot be based on just one party’s statements. The Court said the evidence, background, and social circumstances must be examined in depth before reaching such conclusions. Since the High Court did not do this, the Supreme Court cancelled its judgment.

The Supreme Court has directed the High Court to reconsider all issues properly – desertion, cruelty, responsibility for the separation, and whether the second divorce petition was even maintainable. Both husband and wife have been asked to appear before the High Court on 24 November 2025.

Living Separately For Long Doesn’t Mean Marriage Is Dead

Explanatory Table Of All Laws & Sections Mentioned

Law / ProvisionFull NamePurpose in Matrimonial DisputesHow It Applies in This Case
Section 13, Hindu Marriage Act, 1955Divorce Provision under HMAProvides grounds on which a marriage can be dissolved.Husband filed divorce petition under this section alleging cruelty. High Court allowed divorce under this section.
Section 13(1)(i-b), Hindu Marriage Act, 1955Ground of DesertionDivorce can be granted when a spouse willfully deserts the other for a continuous period of at least 2 years.Husband’s second divorce petition (2013) was specifically filed under this ground. Supreme Court said desertion was not properly examined.
Ground of Cruelty (Section 13)Part of Section 13 HMAMental or physical cruelty is a valid ground for divorce.High Court accepted husband’s oral allegations of mental cruelty without evaluating evidence or wife’s counterclaim.
Doctrine of Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage (Judge-made law)Not a statutory ground but used in some SC judgmentsCourts sometimes grant divorce when marriage has completely collapsed and cannot be fixed.Supreme Court here warns courts not to use this doctrine blindly just because the couple lives separately.
Family Court / High Court Duty to Examine EvidenceProcedural Judicial DutyCourts must identify who caused the separation, whether desertion was willful, and whether cruelty existed.Supreme Court held High Court failed to check responsibility, failed to consider child welfare, and ignored evidence.
Withdrawal of Earlier Divorce PetitionProcedural bar conceptA withdrawn case cannot always be used as a fresh cause of action unless grounds differ.Supreme Court said High Court should have examined whether the first withdrawn petition (cruelty) barred the second petition.

Case Title: Dr. Anita vs. Indresh Gopal Kohli (Civil Appeal arising out of SLP (Civil) No. 24920 of 2019)

Bench: Justice Surya Kant, Justice Joymalya Bagchi

Counsels

For Petitioner (Wife – Dr. Anita)

  • Mr. Tushar Bakshi, AOR

For Respondent (Husband – Indresh Gopal Kohli)

  • Mr. Satyajit A. Desai, Adv.
  • Mr. Sachin Singh, Adv.
  • Mr. Parth Johri, Adv.
  • Mr. Sanchit Agrahari, Adv.
  • Mr. Pratik Kumar Singh, Adv.
  • Ms. Anagha S. Desai, AOR

Key Facts & Important Dates

EventDetails
Marriage Date20 May 2009
Child Born7 March 2010 (Male child, custody with wife)
First Divorce Case (Cruelty)Filed 2010 by husband; later withdrawn
Second Divorce Case (Desertion)Filed 2013 by husband under Section 13(1)(i-b) HMA
Trial Court Decision (2018)Divorce petition dismissed — desertion not proved
High Court Judgment (20.09.2019)Reversed trial court; granted divorce based on husband’s oral statements
Supreme Court Judgment14 November 2025
DirectionMatter remitted back to High Court
Next Appearance Date24 November 2025

Supreme Court’s Key Observations

  • Courts must not assume marriage is over only because couple lives separately.
  • Must check who caused the separation.
  • Findings of cruelty and desertion must be based on evidence, not just oral claims.
  • Wrong findings can have “devastating effects” on children.
  • High Court did not analyse:
    • Whether wife was thrown out
    • Whether earlier divorce case withdrawal bars a second case
    • Who is responsible for the separation
  • High Court judgment set aside; case sent back.

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