{"id":4655,"date":"2026-02-18T12:38:55","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T07:08:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shoneekapoor.com\/legal-news\/?p=4655"},"modified":"2026-02-18T12:06:13","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T06:36:13","slug":"wife-affair-mental-cruelty-hc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shoneekapoor.com\/legal-news\/wife-affair-mental-cruelty-hc\/","title":{"rendered":"Decade-Long Desertion by Wife | Acquitted in 498A Case, Yet Divorce Denied: Karnataka High Court Terms Husband\u2019s Extra Marital Affair Allegation as \u201cMental Cruelty\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\">Karnataka High Court refused divorce to a husband deserted for over a decade and acquitted in a 498A case. Despite the wife\u2019s absence, his extra marital affair allegation was treated as mental cruelty. After years of separation and acquittal, what more must a husband prove?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>BENGALURU<\/em>: The <strong>Karnataka High Court at Bengaluru<\/strong>, through a Division Bench comprising <strong>Hon\u2019ble Mr. Justice Jayant Banerji and Hon\u2019ble Mr. Justice T.M. Nadaf<\/strong>, delivered its judgment on 10 February 2026, dismissing the husband\u2019s appeal and upholding the Family Court\u2019s decision refusing divorce under <strong>Section 13(1)(b) of the <a href=\"https:\/\/sahodar.in\/cruelty-by-wife-under-the-hindu-marriage-act-1955\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hindu Marriage Act<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The husband had approached the Court claiming that his <strong>wife left the matrimonial home in 2015 and never returned<\/strong>. He alleged that she was involved in an <strong>extra-marital relationship<\/strong> and had also filed a criminal case under <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shoneekapoor.com\/498a\/\">Section 498A<\/a> IPC and the <a href=\"https:\/\/sahodar.in\/dowry-prohibition-act-1961\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dowry Prohibition Act<\/a><\/strong> against him. Though he was later acquitted in the criminal case, he argued that the long separation and false case amounted to <strong>desertion<\/strong> and that the marriage had completely broken down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, the Family Court had earlier dismissed his petition stating that he failed to prove desertion. Challenging that order, the husband filed an <strong>appeal before the High Court<\/strong>. Even in the High Court, the <strong>wife did not appear<\/strong>, and an Amicus Curiae was appointed to represent her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The High Court made it clear that simply living separately for a long period is not enough to grant divorce. The Bench clearly observed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;It is trite that mere living separately for considerable period of time may not amount to desertion.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>The Court explained that what matters is <strong>whether there was an intention to permanently abandon the marriage without any reasonable cause<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The judges further stated that the husband failed to produce strong proof to show that the wife had deserted him with such intention. The Court also noted that <strong>allegations of extra-marital relationship were not supported by evidence<\/strong>. In fact, the Bench recorded that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;Mere accusation of relationship with some other person itself is a mental cruelty and perhaps is the reasonable cause for the wife to live apart.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>On the issue of burden of proof, the Court strongly emphasized:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;It is trite that burden is always on the party who approaches the Court for the relief sought in his case and not on the weakness of other side.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>The Court also rejected the argument that acquittal in the 498A case automatically proves desertion. It held that <strong>acquittal due to lack of evidence does not by itself establish that the wife deserted the husband without cause.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, after examining all materials, the Bench concluded that the husband had failed to prove the essential ingredients required under <strong>Section 13(1)(b) of the Hindu Marriage Act<\/strong>. As a result, the <strong>appeal was dismissed<\/strong>, and the <strong>Family Court\u2019s order was upheld<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This judgment once again shows that in divorce cases based on desertion, the husband must strictly prove the intention of abandonment and cannot rely only on long separation or acquittal in criminal cases.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Explanatory Table: Laws And Sections Involved<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><td><strong>Law \/ Section<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Purpose<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>How Applied in This Case<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td><strong>Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 \u2013 Section 13(1)(b)<\/strong><\/td><td>Provides divorce if one spouse deserts the other for at least two continuous years without reasonable cause and without consent.<\/td><td>Husband sought divorce claiming wife deserted him since 2015. Court held he failed to prove intention to permanently abandon the marriage.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sahodar.in\/family-court-act\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Family Courts Act<\/a>, 1984 \u2013 Section 19(1)<\/strong><\/td><td>Gives right to appeal against Family Court decisions before the High Court.<\/td><td>Husband filed appeal in High Court challenging dismissal of his divorce petition.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Indian Penal Code, 1860 \u2013 Section 498A<\/strong><\/td><td>Penal provision dealing with cruelty by husband or his relatives towards a married woman.<\/td><td>Wife had filed a 498A case against husband. He was acquitted, but Court said acquittal alone does not prove desertion.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 \u2013 Sections 3 &amp; 4<\/strong><\/td><td>Section 3 punishes giving\/taking dowry; Section 4 punishes demanding dowry.<\/td><td>These sections were invoked in the criminal case filed by the wife. The acquittal did not automatically support husband\u2019s divorce claim.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Case Details<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Case Title:<\/strong> Husband v. Wife<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Court:<\/strong> High Court of Karnataka at Bengaluru<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Date of Judgment:<\/strong> 10 February 2026<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Bench:<\/strong> Hon\u2019ble Mr. <strong>Justice Jayant Banerji<\/strong> &amp; Hon\u2019ble Mr. <strong>Justice T.M. Nadaf<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Counsels:<\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>For Appellant (Husband):<\/strong> Sri K.S. Ganesha, Advocate<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>For Respondent (Wife):<\/strong> Smt. Archana K.M., Amicus Curiae<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Key Takeaways<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Long separation alone is not enough for divorce. Even if a husband is forced to live separately for years, he must still strictly prove \u201cintention to desert\u201d by the wife.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Acquittal in a <strong>false 498A or dowry case<\/strong> does not automatically help a husband get divorce. Criminal acquittal and matrimonial relief are treated separately by courts.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The entire burden of proof remains on the husband. Even if the wife does not appear in court, the man must independently prove every legal ingredient.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Unproven allegations of extra-marital affairs can backfire. The Court may treat such accusations as mental cruelty against the wife if not supported by solid evidence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In desertion cases, men must produce clear, strong, and documented proof of both separation and deliberate abandonment. Emotional hardship or long litigation alone is not legally sufficient.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-16018d1d wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shoneekapoor.com\/legal-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Husband-v.-Wife-.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Click Here to Download Judgment &#8211; Husband v. 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