India is quietly witnessing a devastating crisis—one that hides behind the curtain of silence, stigma, and legal misuse. As male suicide rates continue to rise, particularly among married men, the nation must confront an uncomfortable truth: our legal system, meant to protect the vulnerable, is increasingly being weaponised against Mens Lives.
The Stark Reality
- Over 70% of all suicides in India are by men—a trend that has continued for decades.
- Married men make up the largest share, often due to emotional, legal, and financial abuse.
- Hanging, poisoning, and self-immolation are tragically common, especially in family disputes.
- Between 2014 and 2021, suicide rates among married men rose sharply—while conversations around their suffering remained almost nonexistent.
Legal Misuse: When Protection Turns into Punishment
Laws like Section 498A (dowry-related cruelty) and the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act were introduced with good intentions—to safeguard women against abuse. But over the years, these laws have taken on a darker form:
- One-sided Arrests: Men and their families are frequently arrested without investigation, based solely on a complaint.
- False FIRs, Real Damage: Even if proven false later, these cases lead to job loss, social humiliation, emotional trauma, and lifelong scars.
- No Deterrent for Misuse: There are little to no consequences for those who misuse the law, while the accused suffer silently, often pushed to the brink.
Comments from the author of this website
I’ve seen too many men crumble under the weight of false allegations. I’ve watched lives fall apart—not because of a conviction, but because of an accusation. Families destroyed, careers ended, elderly parents dragged through courts—all before any trial even begins.
I’m not against laws that protect the vulnerable. But I am against laws that are misused with impunity, without consequence.
When the Law Becomes a Weapon
We were told these laws were created to protect, not to punish the innocent. But in reality, they’re often used as bargaining tools. File a complaint, and suddenly you’re in control—property, children, settlement, social pressure—it all shifts instantly.
The system doesn’t ask if you’re innocent. It treats you like you’re already guilty. And the worst part? No one is held accountable when the case is proven false. No apology. No punishment. Just silence.
No Deterrent for Lies
This is what truly breaks people—not just the legal battle, but the feeling that the system doesn’t care whether the allegation was true or false. That it’s okay for a man to be ruined, as long as someone feels justified filing the complaint.
If someone lies under oath or files a false case, shouldn’t they be held responsible? Or are some lies more acceptable than others?
We’re Not Machines
The emotional damage is real. The mental trauma is invisible, but crushing. Depression. Anxiety. Sleepless nights. Some don’t survive it.
And yet, what help is offered? None. If a man breaks down, he’s weak. If he takes his life, he’s just another number. His pain is not “trending.” His death is not “activism.” It’s forgotten.
We need a system that sees men as human beings too—capable of hurting, deserving of help.
- What Has to Change: I’m not asking for special treatment. I’m asking for fairness.
- Start with accountability: If someone files a false case, they must face consequences. Not maybe—must.
- Laws must be gender-neutral: Abuse isn’t about gender, it’s about power.
- No arrest without inquiry: Follow the Arnesh Kumar guidelines. Make investigation mandatory, not optional.
- Mental health support must be accessible: for anyone going through a family crisis, regardless of gender.
Final Words
If we continue like this, we’ll keep losing more lives. Not to violence—but to silence, to shame, to despair.
Supporting justice means supporting the truth. That truth must include the voices of men who are falsely accused, forgotten, and left with no way out.
This isn’t about taking sides. It’s about making the system honest. Fair. Humane.
If we don’t fix this now, we’re not just failing men—we’re failing justice itself.